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We live in a world that feminism is trying to drag every woman with them by stronghold arguments of what it looks like to be a woman today. I am also confused that it seems that anyone can be a woman (or appear to be) if they so choose. However, YAH said women are special, and so are his sons. We all play an essential role. I grew up with a very independent attitude, but I thought I knew from the beginning I would have to take care of myself and others. I did not understand that Yahshua came that we could be joined again with our Heavenly Father YAH’VA.
I noticed as I searched out the scriptures I was lead by the Ruach HaKodesh (the Holy Spirit of YAH) regarding my purpose and calling. I struggle for many years because I did not know if I was doing what YAH called me to do or if I was doing what I wanted today. We live in a world that focuses on following their hearts although we the scriptures tell us our hearts are deceitful. Until we allow YAH to create a pure heart in us, we do what we want to do.
Romans 8:6-10 King James Version (KJV)
6 For to be carnally minded is death, but to be spiritually minded is life and peace.
7 Because the carnal mind is enmity against God: for it is not subject to the law of God, neither indeed can be.
8 So then they that are in the flesh cannot please God.
9 But ye are not in the flesh, but in the Spirit, if so be that the Spirit of God dwell in you. Now if any man have not the Spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
10 And if Christ be in you, the body is dead because of sin; but the Spirit is life because of righteousness.
Many said that my journey of dying to flesh was selfish because I didn’t worry about finding a job outside of the home. I knew YAH was providing, but I did let their doubt make me doubt. I wasn’t sure either for many years. I also noticed this doubt made me the target of many business coaches; thankfully I couldn’t afford their fees. The questions arose, “is it possible to be what the world calls a stay at home mom possible because I am single? My journey has finally brought me to the point that yes it is possible. I have learned that if YAH says it’s so, it’s so because these things are possible with YAH. He wants his daughters to be in the home or homemakers as well as taking care of and teaching the children first. I also run a business outside of my house. I enjoy what I do, and I had to focus on my calling first. Regardless of what big business influencers say today, remember they are lead by mammon, the world system, YAH has a plan.
I am single because I choose not to remain in a sin-filled and abusive relationship. But, I wanted better, and that did not change my role as a woman. I know it’s hard to believe but’s it’s true. Some women can and work outside the home, but for me, I am not called to work outside the house, and when I did it was complete turmoil!
Titus 2:5 King James Version (KJV)
5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
Focus on your first assignments
- I seek the Kingdom of Heaven, the King of Heaven and our maker, YAH’VH and YAHSHUA with all that I am!! I desire to keep Torah.
- I take care of home. I am a keeper at home, and that does not change regardless of my marital status. Understanding this I can live without desperation because of Yahovah Yirah, my provider!!
- I am a businesswoman. Proverbs 31:16 KJV – She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands, she planteth a vineyard.
The steps above summarize what I do. There are times that I am stressed, but it’s a choice as I cast my cares on YAHSHUA as his word tells me to do!